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Journal Update

Hello all.

More than anything else I get emails from people asking if I have any clips with men in bondage or crossdressers/ t-girls in bondage or couples in bondage. At one time I had intended on making an entirely new site dedicated to those things but life got in the way. However because of all of the emails inquiring I’ve decided to put what little content I do have up here on borntobebound as I find it. I understand that many of you guys that are fully dominant find that kind of material to be boner killers so to prevent you from having to see it on the main page Tony added a BTBB men category. You can click on it if you want to check it out!  Please understand that I’m not promising new clips in that area on a regular basis or anything of the sort. I just thought it would be a nice gesture to provide those clips at no additional charge to those of you that are members here and interested. I know there are a lot of you-

On another note, Sahrye was a regular and fan favorite here for a while but I haven’t seen her since spring of 2015 I don’t think!!!  She plans to be here the 25th of this month (last minute planning) and she is anxious for some custom video work! I should actually have time spread out with her over two evenings which gives me time to do bondage customs with her and of course Tony can be in the clips as well. For you gotcuffs.com fans she will be shooting 5 hours with Tony for that site. For those of you that don’t know Sahrye is a good little actress with a niiice body and pretty expressive face and she can tolerate tight ties and mean gags. She also knows how to tie/ top so if you’d like a bondage custom with her please read the info on my customs at the top of this page and send me an email with the relevant information. I can not give you a price until I know what you want to see….

other custom opportunities with:

October 21 Adara Jordin

October 25/26 Sahrye

very soon local newbie Dominica returns

November 2nd Rachel Adams

before the end of the year Sarah Brooke will return

before the end of the year Vicious Vamp will return

I also have 3 excited local(ish) new girls that LIKE bondage lined up within the next month and there will probably be some other girls in there as well, hopefully Riley Jane & Simone. I just have to get through this month-

If you don’t know what those ladies look like but think you might be interested in a custom you can type their names in over on the right hand side

That is it for now…..

Journal Update

Well we had bad storms in Detroit the other day and guess what happened- the bank basement flooded and left lots of sludge behind. Luckily the floor is now just cement and much of the furniture has been relocated to our new home even though we are keeping the bank/ studio. Sadly it still takes tons of time and energy to clean out and plenty was ruined. The sewers were just overwhelmed. It happened to everyone in the neighborhood…This is just going to be a thing I guess unless we install some $25,000+ backflow system which is not guaranteed at all. The foundation and brick work we had done held but the city sewers did not. It is after 2am and Tony is over there now working on it but I just can’t. This is the first time I haven’t helped with a clean up there…

I lost it when I saw what had happened, sobbed like a baby but I bounced back. We were busy at the condo getting it ready for the realtor to come list it the following day. We assumed the bank basement would flood since the streets were flooded near our home but there was nothing we could do so we didn’t go look that night we just carried on working…

Everything is out of the condo for the staging process but I need to fix a not to code dryer vent, put in flooring on the second floor which we keep meaning to do, fix some settling cracks on the third floor. That all needs to be done by Saturday (by us) for the first showing. Nothing got done this evening at the condo because of the bank basement issue AND Friday evening we are shooting Rose, aka Illustrious Rogue and the new girl Dominica again because I only shot that one clip of her. I need some variety in my ladies here I know. I know!! Good news for me at the new house the air conditioner is working and later today people come to clean out the vents so we won’t be breathing in years of neglect and remodeling crap. The bathrooms were gutted so my shower situation is funny. I bought an outdoor pool shower, hung a shower curtain by a hula hoop and installed it in what was once a laundry room. Hey, it works…lol. On another note, related to the image below you all see Adara is here A LOT and of course she wants to shoot but I’ve done so much with her…..in order to help with that situation together she and I (and Tony) will do customs for super cheap, like modeling fee prices (within reason) so if a custom with her interests you write me jj at borntobebound.com and patience please….

 

On the health front that desiccated thyroid stuff I’m taking seems to be helping me A LOT and perhaps the low gluten and sugar. My core body temp is up to 97.1 from 96.4  still wayyyyyyyy too low but it is improving- so is my mood, lady issues, memory, energy level etc, etc… and all that we can ask in life is that we keep on improving. I also found a Netflix Documentary called Food Matters extremely helpful so if you are curious check it out.

Night night everyone and thanks for your support 🙂

Sincerely,

JJ

Hi everyone,

Caroline Pierce is in town for a week. We will shoot a couple days while she is here starting this Monday so if you’d like a custom please email me jj at borntobebound dot com. We will make custom clips that fit the site nice and cheap. Adara Jordin will also be in town during some of that time so if you’d like a two girl clip that can be arranged with them. Please give me as much information as possible in the first message about your custom- please, please, please. Then I can quote you a price. I don’t do pay by minute like many others.

Well I am back in reality at home in Detroit after that major life break in lala land, I mean LA for Dixie’s wedding of course! I was losing my mind and health before I left but I was nervous about leaving my responsibilities behind however I think stepping away from the situation here was actually just what the doctor ordered. I’m not really any healthier but I am in much better spirits which is a step in the right direction. Today I had that doctors appointment since my temperature averages out at 96.4 and you know a host of other issues and I haven’t been to an actual doctor since Anthony and I first got together in 2011. Yeah, that is ridiculous I know. I am a self diagnoser and medicator and I’ve been correct about what was going wrong in me in the past but this was puzzling and not fixable in house so I had to be an adult and go to a professional. I’ll have many more visits to make- making up for lost time I guess.

I also really fell back in love with being tied up while I was out in LA- not that I stopped enjoying it, the “job” aspect just changed things- however I’d say that sparkle in my eye is really back for it so I’m up for some challenges!

Anyway I haven’t been in emails for a while but I’ll be on the computer catching up a lot this weekend. If I owe you a message and you don’t hear from me Saturday please resend your inquiry  ;).

I’ll add some images from Dixie’s wedding soon too 😉

Happy weekend, hope you all get to enjoy it-

JJ

Journal Update:

Hi everyone,

Earlier this week my in-laws decided they would come up this weekend for fathers day and offer us some help on the new house. Well, we all know that is a very kind gesture- driving 5 hrs each way on a weekend off to do hard labor but of course that sends me back into cleaning and hiding mode on top of running two companies and trying to get that house livable because having the bank property, my condo and this money pit house are absolutely shaving years off of my life with the amount of stress I’m under. I have zero dollars left in savings which is not comfortable at all for a high anxiety, safe living type of lady like me soooo if you’ve been browsing this site for years now and not becoming a member now would be the most awesome time to show support and JOIN. My goal is to have the condo staged and listed for sale at the end of next week, so it is going to be a hectic week. I am shooting a young, new local cutie pie on Monday though. We will see how she does!

Also the night of the 23rd I’ll be shooting Adara if you’d like a custom with her or to webcam with us

The 30th I’ll be shooting with Rachel if you’d like a custom with her

jj at borntobebound.com of course

AND

Happy Fathers Day to all you hard working dads out there!

Journal update

Hi everyone,

Sorry you got two updates in one day. I prefer to spread them out for you but sometimes that doesn’t happen.

SOOOOO let me say thanks so much for all the birthday presents from my wishlist and your minds. I am officially 38 which is a bit different than several girls that started bondage around when I did, they seem to be forever 32. lol. I was overwhelmed with the thoughtfulness when I picked up my mail! It was an otherwise glum day but boy that was special. It was my biggest mail pick up in all of my years doing bondage and EVERYTHING will be put to great use!! That being said most likely Sunday if not Saturday night I will be writing you all and asking for your preferred username and password for your free membership for the month OR if you sent me something and you are reading this feel free to email me with your desired login info-  jj at borntobebound.com of course.  For those of you that are already members and don’t want to quit the discounted re-bill cycle for one free month we can wait until a time when you cancel your membership and want to come back.

Oh and I’ve decided that I will take amazon giftcards for site memberships. You won’t need to go to the post office for a money order and wait for ages if you are the type that doesn’t like to use your credit card online….The amazon gift card number just gets sent to this email address. Easy! Just write me and tell me you sent the giftcard and tell me what username and password you would like. I’ll add that to the join area soon.

60 days  $45 amazon card

30 days $ 30 amazon card

Also I am going to LA next month for my Dixie Comets wedding. I was going to come right back because of everything that needs to be done here and the short summer BUT I’m already going to be out there and I won’t be able to make it to Fetishcon in Tampa so I’ve decided to stay a few days.

I’ll be looking to book sessions (references please) and to shoot hopefully new to me faces.

IF there is an LA model(s) that would fit my site that you’d like to see email me her name….I am out of the bondage loop or maybe we can entice her with a custom?

I barely get here to check these emails so I certainly haven’t been browsing the web for the new (tough) cutie pies. Help me if you have 😉

Happy weekend to those of you that get to enjoy the down time!!!

Oh and Vivian Irene Pierce is back in Ohio and reached out to me recently. Many of you know her…now she doesn’t do the mean gags or hard ties or nudity but she is a bondage fan favorite from long ago and I love her look and style and I’ve known her since BEFORE I started tying so I’d enjoy some fluffy bondage with her because well she is Vivian. Anyway if you would like a custom within her limits it would get her more motivated to come up and shoot I’m sure.

Thanks for the support-

JJ

Journal Update:

Hi everyone! My bestest friend Dixie Comet arrived and we spent yesterday on the water and then grilled out and made a fire. I’m considering her visit a staycation. It is forcing me to smell the roses for a couple of days and I’ve gotta say it was nice to sit outside the new/old house on a beautiful night with lots of stars in the sky and enjoy the moment and not be fixated on getting shit done.  We will be shooting Monday and Tuesday. I believe our custom plate is full, but if you have a quicky last minute idea please send me an email.

I was at my wits end before she arrived- a flea infestation in my personal wardrobe room at the bank from those damn ceiling raccoons that got back in yet again, a huge fallen tree to cope with, the fridge at my condo broken again, my contractors disappeared again, it was pointed out that the tires on my car are all horrible and I missed my 20 year class reunion in Connecticut tonight.

6 hrs with a chainsaw and Tony solved the tree problem,  Orkin solved the flea problem and the rest are works in progress.

Now back to borntobebound

Adara next week

Rachel June 16

Terra Mizu July 1

Caroline Pierce for a week at the end of July!

Locals Riley Jane & Simone will be in soon-ish too

Happy Saturday everyone!

Journal Update

Hello everyone,

I’ve been getting lots of email inquiries as to where the tumblr posts and tweets have gone and the truth is as many of you know we bought this old house on the water a few months back that is being completely gutted, which is pricey and time consuming. I’ve had a condo since 2008. The builder went bankrupt I picked it up for next to nothing and lucky for me property values are up so of course that means I have lots of equity in the place and back in Dec as we were (Tony/ gotcuffs) and I were closing on the new house I was THRILLED about what my condo is now worth. I’m listing it veryyyyyy soon. I’ve just had A LOT of house guests and very little time to fix it up and stage it. It has been comforting knowing that I can get a lot out of it because I need to put a lot into the new place and of course we’ve run into a lot of unforeseen expenses (of course). Well recently I opened a document saying that the condo development was built on property that was once occupied by a nasty shop- I don’t want to get into details but there will be a 2 year investigation to see if the property is safe and blah,  blah, blah. This isn’t my first experience with this type of thing. I had a similar thing happen with my old workplace. I KNOW the property is safe. I know the people that worked in the shop decades ago are suffering and I understand that their families want to be compensated, that makes sense to me. What doesn’t make sense is this two year waste of time and money investigation that is going to happen at my property. I’m 99% sure it is a huge waste of time. Anyway, at the end of the day when I’ve been exhausted, over stressed, not well rested etc etc there has always been that comfort in knowing my condo would sell for a lot and quickly per my realtor. Now there is most likely a two year hold on that. My plan was that it would be unloaded by fall at the LATEST and um that most likely will not be the case. I am so lucky in so many ways, to get to run this site as the majority of my living, to have found an intelligent, open, handsome man to live this life with me, to get to run a lingerie shop which I longed for since I was 12 years old but boy oh boy it hasn’t been easy and I’m unlucky in the strangest of ways and just so frazzled.

Anyway I’m alive and plugging away at work and on the new house. I haven’t felt like sessioning because my mind has been other places and it is not fair to the clients and I just haven’t felt like being a part of social media and seeing shiny, happy carefree people at the beach or bar. I feel like if I read one more post from some model saying “I’m bored” I’d have a huge urge to hop on a plane and go punch her in the face. lol. I also can’t stand to see posts about dogs being put down or cancer or people starting gofundme accounts for the most selfish reasons. I’m just not in the right head space for any of it so I backed off. You know time heals all wounds and I’m dealing with my unfortunate situation a little better so I’ll be back to posting more free smut soon.

On a happier note I did get a nice visit in with Gigi aka milf Gigi, a real life friend and I had not seen her in ages! We got to shoot a couple customs for my site and I did some clips for hers. ALL of them will eventually be posted here. We will share all of the content.  It was nice to have her around. I felt like the trip went too quickly.  I also got some time in with Carissa who comes to Detroit to session often- local session fellas keep that in mind!! She had some issues to prevent her from shooting the customs I had for her but she will return in June and it was good to catch up with her soo I did get some time in with people I like and who like me ;). Constance came in for a night and we shot a few clips, boy she is the tiniest right now and soooo easy to tie up, sheesh. Right now Fayth on Fire is in town and I got one clip in with her earlier and we will shoot a couple customs tomorrow and she is in town working with a bunch of others. Time flies, she hadn’t been up here since 2012!! When she leaves my house Monday aside from a shoot with Rachel I’ll be on model shoot hiatus for hopefully 10 days to get my home fixed up and listed and see what happens. It might be a big waste of time considering the potential poison problem but I won’t know until I try…..

Tony and I had our one year anniversary the 4th. I feel like we somehow had 10 years worth of life jam packed into that one year!!  I screwed up and booked Adara that day and we really haven’t been alone since so perhaps next week we can work in a relaxing anniversary dinner out so I don’t even need to clean up the kitchen. I say screwed up and booked Adara, but he didn’t see it that way. We shot that strap on custom with the pumpkin mask and strap on IS his favorite.

Anyway new clips with Constance, Dakkota, Fayth, Gigi, Adara, Amanda Marie, Sarah Brooke & myself are what you can expect here in the near future.

Oh, and if you’ve had a custom in mind for me to do with Tony now would be the time to send it in since I won’t have any girls around for a while. I’m up for a challenge and he is actually a much better rigger than me or most of the well known riggers so I’m sure he can handle whatever you throw at him.  I’ll make them really cheap since I won’t have to pay out a model expecting custom money 😉

Oh and I’m really trying to get Dixie here in May but with her wedding in July she needs customs to get here, so that too.

….and I have room for one more Rachel custom the 20th

jj at borntobebound dot com

patience please, I’m the worst emailer and probably as busy as 3 people put together and horribly scatterbrained on top of it all 😉

As always thanks for supporting the site. I love you all for it-

Night, night

JJ

Oh more good news our big dog Sookie that suffered the dreaded bloat/ twisted stomach is as good as new!!!

Journal Update, ladies available for custom videos

Visiting models

 

regularly available locals

Hi everyone, as most of you know I am the worst emailer in the world. I have only been in my borntobebound email two or three times a week for a bit so please be patient. If you are interested in a custom please title your email CUSTOM REQUEST. Before you write visit the top of this page and read what I have written about customs. I do not charge by the minute like a lot of girls. I charge differently for each request depending on how time consuming it will be and how difficult it will be for the model. It is less expensive if it is something that I think makes a good fit at borntobebound- message me with your scenario and we can go from there. I like this to be figured out in as few emails as possible, I’m sorry about that. I know many of you want to have endless conversations about your custom fantasies but I am spread way to thin, that doesn’t mean I won’t enjoy making your custom come to life.

Obviously each of these women have their own set of limits and limitations-everyone is a little different.

IF you’d like for a script to be memorized I am not the right person for your custom. My attention span and work load can not handle that but if you have key phrases you’d like used no problem- Feel free to include images of ties you like and outfits as well. 

Oh and don’t forget if you still don’t like to join memberships but like to buy clips you can find mine cheaper at onebondageplace.com. You can create an account and stream or download your clips over and over!! Clips4sale does NOT offer that service. PLUS the site belongs to my hubby Tony/ gotcuffs. He slaved on it for YEARS. He filled in gaps he thought were missing on the clip sites as a bondage lover himself and he built a site to his liking. We hope you like it too…

 

Thank you!!

JJ

Journal update

Hi everyone, sorry for the late update. I posted a bonus as an apology. The days are FLYING by. I’m constantly busy but still not getting the things done I want to get done. My mind and body are a bit fixated on getting that new (old) house livable. I NEED to sell my condo because all of these costs are eating me alive. I hate it. It will be worth it in the end. I know that….All the cash and labor is just one more obstacle but a step in the right direction towards long term happiness I suppose but it is making for a lot of unhappiness. lol. It has been a really interesting few years that is for sure.

On another note last weekend my in-laws came. Preparing for perfect vanillas in a not so vanilla life is really hard….hiding everything at the bank and even at the condo. Yikes. I think we did an excellent job aside from the handcuffs on the headboard of my bed at the condo. Oops, they are such a permanent fixture they don’t seem out of place to me. They may have seen them in passing but oh well.

The last day of their visit our big dog Sookie was running around the backyard of our new home- the one we are not living in yet. Well she ran too hard and drank too much water at some point and Anthony found her  all bloated up and foaming at the mouth, going into shock. Well he took her to the emergency vet, after hours on a weekend. They knew what it was right away- it happens to big dogs with broad chests and thin waists often. She’s a St Bernard mix. Anyway it didn’t look like she was going to make it. This dog is my husbands true companion. They have that kind of special dog human love that people that are not animal people could never understand. Anyway, we proceeded to try to save her life and two surgeries, 3 days and thousands of dollars later we got our dog back. Let me clarify- we are not really people people, and we have been very anti-social the last few years trying to build our careers and fix our building and children are not a thing we will ever do so our pets are extra dear to us.

 She is healing very nicely and if all goes as planned we should be able to spend years with her!! It was a really shitty couple of days and the pain of the vet bill is a very fresh wound. We could not let her die after she had just been galloping around like a majestic creature hours before. We had to try to save her and we did! We really lucked out….

Well after researching bloat/ twisted stomach and reading many sad stories I thought I would share the information since it is the second biggest killer of dogs. So if you fancy yourself a dog person and want to arm yourself with knowledge check out the link below. It is an easy read even for someone that has a hard time staying focused on one thing.

http://www.critterchatter.com/health/142-bloat.html

 

Back to work, the shoot schedule in April is out of control busy… I’ll make a list of who and when as soon as I get a chance in case any of you would like a custom video although I made a journal entry on it a couple weeks ago.

Some of you have been concerned that I’ve mostly disappeared from tumblr and twitter. I’m alive, I’m just really consumed with other things. I will get back to it soon. I’m not anti-social media. In fact I love twitter because it is perfect for my short attention span. I can be present without it being too consuming. I love tumblr because I think it is the most beneficial place to “advertise” my website.

On another note, some of you are pretty out of control posting my clips for free on those sites full of stolen content and some of you are foolish enough to use the same username as members of my site as you do to post my content for free. I’m in shitty spirits and not feeling forgiving at this point so a handful of you will be blocked from borntobebound by the weekend for not just being crooks, or thieves but for being enemies- certainly not fans. There are 3 new stolen content sites that were just brought to my attention.  I PAY a company to remove the clips. They kill HUNDREDS of links a week for me but their bots hadn’t picked up on these newer sites but that will be taken care of soon. I thank those of you that let me know where the stolen content pops up and for those of you producers that come and read my site if you want to know who the firm is that removes the links for me let me know. I’m happy with their service, once they are aware of something they handle it.

Ok, time to pack up the office and head home to attempt sleep.

One last things, simple storyline ideas fellas….if you have them please send them over. I like ideas and suggestions…..not pages and pages of customs you’d like me to produce for free 😉

Also I’ve really only been in my email here twice in the past week- no joke. Yes I’m slow and I’m sorrrryyyyyyyy.

Goodnight!!

JJ

 

Journal Update

Hi everyone,

Some of you know I’m in Detroit.

Most of your favorite bondage models are not here. Here is the list of out of town ladies scheduled for visits as of right now-

The ladies below would love custom videos to help with travel expenses I’m sure.

Just remember I am usually slow in the email department. My hands are full of many, many, many tasks right now-

jj at borntobebound.com    see custom area at the top of the page for what I need to quote you. I like to handle this in as few messages as possible. 

These aren’t the greatest images of these ladies, but I don’t have all night.

They are all very google-able.

They are all good at bondage and gags. Aside from Rachel they all to hitachi scenes. Adara, Sarah Brooke, Carissa Montgomery also do strappon scenes with me as the top, remember I (JJ Plush) don’t get nude.

Of course more girls will be added and there are plenty of locals – Riley Rose, Riley Jane, Sass, Simone, Scarlett, Ariyana, Rose aka Illustrious Rogue, Je C are available now for customs.

I’m shooting more with Steve Villa more later today, Wednesday. We shot 3 clips on Valentines Day. It was a lot of fun. I posted one tonight. We share all of our content so he will post some of me to his sites, but they will eventually all end up here at borntobebound.

 

This Saturday the 20th Steve, Tony, Adara, Sass, Scarlett and I will be going to the Detroit Dirty Show at the Russell Industrial Center. If you happen to be there please say hello. It will be my first time out all year. I am soooo excited!!!

www.dirtydetroit.com

Also for you guys that have been patiently trying to schedule sessions with me….I haven’t done any since Christmas time. In March I won’t be working on my new house as much and I won’t have as many models in my space so I’ll have time to take care of you guys and my mind will be in it. It is unfair to schedule sessions with people that spend a lot and come from far to spend time with me… I appreciate the time, effort and cash it takes to come and see me.

I always want to be on top of my game-  not have my head wrapped up in my other businesses or home projects and not be running on 3 hours of sleep a night- it would have been selfish of me to pencil you guys in for January or February.  I’m not trying to be rude. I’m trying to make sure you get the most out of your experience with me. Believe me it is tempting to line up a dozen sessions a week, the money would be sooooo niiiiiice but it wouldn’t be fair to anyone involved-