Oddly enough many of you have asked to see wedding photos so here are some that include some familiar faces to you bondage fans. I have not included other attendees out of respect for them, lol.
Some of you know Tony from gotcuffs is the man that built my borntobebound website and my long time boyfriend. We got married in Vegas April 4, a somewhat spur of the moment decision because we were already going to be there for a big lingerie convention for my other career. My parents announced that they would also be in Vegas then. I had finally talked my dad into attending Viva Las Vegas the big pin up and rockabilly convention with a huge car show. He is a big car enthusiast with a 57 chevy convertible himself. My mom HATES to travel and isn’t in the best health so I don’t think she will be going to Vegas again. My parents are very old school….they don’t know much about my life (my father did not speak to me for 3 years 2008-2011 but that is over) but they do like Tony and always wished that we were married. We decided to get married as a surprise, only I blew the surprise and told my mom who told others and invited others. After dating 6 years my parents got married in Vegas with only 2 people attending so I never thought my mom would blab since her wedding was tiny. Since my mom told I told as well, and many of my favorite people came even though it was Easter weekend and we had just decided to do it a little over a month prior. It was all very last minute and but came together nicely with minimal stress.
When we decided to get married we wanted to do it where my parents got married but it didn’t exist anymore so I thought about the Neon Museum after being bored by the looks of the chapels. I had never gotten to the sign graveyard but always wanted to go because I love old things, to put it mildly. They had wedding packages available at the same rates as the chapels so I booked it. I never pictured a dream wedding because I never wanted a wedding but I don’t think I would have changed anything, aside from my dress. I went real conservative to please my folks but conservative does not work on this not so conservative figure, lol. Oh and Tony chose this hair color, he just loves it although he hates all other not natural looking colors. It was really amazing having my bondage family there with me. I didn’t discover bondage until 2006 with Eric Cain (my best friend now) but it changed my life. The majority of my friends from elementary school and later tossed me out of their lives for being into bondage in 2008 when I let the cat out of the bag and left my fancy career…I also had nothing to contribute like I did before- executive suites at all the sports events and concerts here and I certainly couldn’t attend one of their dinner parties and mention what I do for a living (which I never would have done). Anyway, I thought they would be happy for me finding something I loved but it didn’t work out that way at all. I was starting over basically alone and scared without that big expense account I had known so well and I needed my old friends, but they didn’t exist… I’m happy to have found a group of like minded individuals that also know what it is like to have a taboo career in real life. I think it is important to have a peer group whenever possible.
It was also a magical thing to find Tony, a person that could satisfy my vanilla tastes, my kinky tastes and someone that fully supports my decision to do what I do on the internet. I am a relationship kind of person and not really poly but there were several years that I thought for sure I would have a vanilla boyfriend to do regular life with and then a side person(s) for the other things- something that I am sure many of you completely understand because some of your spouses are not ok with you looking at this site and want nothing to do with your fetish aside from forgetting you ever mentioned it, so just imagine doing your kink on the website for the world to see. Imagine the impact that has on your life….Anyway I don’t want to say that I had given up hope, but I had just kind of accepted my fate when Dixie delivered Tony to my door for a shoot. I was 100 percent the real me, not putting on a false front or being shy because I thought we would date. I just thought he was another producer, but I quickly realized we were soul mates. We were into our 30s, neither of us NEEDED a partner, both of us knew exactly who we were, neither of us are insecure or judgmental about our unusual career choices, neither of us want children, our deep dirty secrets were plastered all over the internet, our morals are very similar, he loved Eric Cain as much as I did and didn’t see him as a threat, lol. Plus he could build my site and not rip me off. I was doing very well on clips4sale but didn’t want all my eggs in one basked. I wanted a site I just did not trust any of my options because of some bad experiences in the past and I am not tech savvy enough to set it up on my own…. Anyway, we just made sense when very little in my life was making sense. We are well partnered but with both of us retaining our unique personalities. He stood by me through last years hellish nightmare after nightmare I’m quite sure he will stand by me when things are ugly down the road.
Anyway it was a beautiful day spent with loved ones. There are usually a million things weighing heavily on my mind but that day there was not, those are the best days in life aren’t they? Oh and my dad reimbursed me for the wedding and the trip that I had already booked because of the International Lingerie Convention so how great is that? Now we have a few extra bucks so I ordered some new products for my lingerie site just figures dot com and we have a few bucks left to finish the retro kitchen renovation in the bank (studio) basement. I refuse to charge up credit cards or take out a loan so things are done ever so slowly around here…Some days it takes every ounce of goodness in me not to just take out a huge loan and have it all done I tell you…
I’ll stop rambling now, if you could care less about any of this and are just here for the porn I completely understand and respect that and I thank you for your patronage, however without Tony you would probably be forced to over pay for clips at my store there because I would have been too afraid to do a site with anyone else, lol.