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Journal Update

Hello everyone, Although I have been doing updates and occasional tumblr/ tweets I haven’t been in my emails in ages. Most of you must be used to that by now sadly…

Ok, so here is the deal- I WILL be able to do sessions between the 27-31 of this month (January) and then much more regularly again after Feb 20. I am back on vampire hours and these will need to be 3pm or later. My apologies- but I have to look after me right now.

Now on to models!

tomorrow night 1/20  Riley Rose

1/21 Brenda Bound  (having her hair & makeup done!!)

1/21 evening Adara

1/24 evening Rachel

*Steve Villa from Girl Next Door will be around for a week in February, any clip ideas- things for him to do to me would be greatly appreciated (by me)

Renee the milfy blond friend of mine from my MSU days assures me that she can do gags now…so we will see. She will return for another try in February as well

April, which seems like forever from now but time flies Fayth on Fire will be here!

There are others I am just forgetting…

My in-laws are coming to help with the new old house Fri-Sun am. It is so thoughtful of them to drive 5 hours each way to help us during their weekend off BUT they don’t know what we do! They think Tony just does IT, and builds and hosts websites and they think I run just figures and do boudoir photos for couples- that is spicy enough sooooooo we get to strip our home and our studio of all things bondagey. They have visited my home but never stayed with us. Making our places vanilla doesn’t really fit into our list of things to do especially with shoots tomorrow and the next day.

I am so lucky that my in-laws are healthy, hard working and kind enough to want to help us with some of the manual labor we have to do and they have absolutely no idea that they are inconveniencing us on any level. They will be shocked to see that we hired out some of the things we have the skills to do ourselves but just not the time. Since they don’t know about our “real jobs” they don’t understand how we are always so busy but not out having fun. Life is pretty funny sometimes. Who knows they might figure some things out this weekend, lol.

I will be in emails tonight- if you want something bumped to the front please resend your message. I am starting with the new.

Hi guys,

I am still hundreds of emails behind. Please don’t take it personally….I just have the responsibilities of 10 people right now and the emails are taking the hit. I know there is custom info in there and session info and I need and want those things, especially with this house to fix but there are only so many hours in the day. For instance I worked from 3pm until 5am with a short break for friends that came by. I only got a third of the things done I needed to get done. I am still on antibiotics with sinusitis and woke up so sickly after only 5 hours of sleep but had a meeting I had to do, cried for myself momentarily and manned up and moved on.

I am run down, beat down perhaps. I will be trying VERY hard to be healthy and make some great clips in the next couple weeks I want (and need it).

Carissa Montgomery this Monday!!

Simone the 14th

Brenda Bound 21 (having a makeup artist for her!!!)

Rachel will be back soon- we keep missing each other so to speak

Je C will be back before the end of the month too

Fayth on Fire comes this spring!!

Rain Degrey wants to come back soon, so customs would help with her flight from Cali to Detroit

I’m sure I’m forgetting things and people….but I am wiped out.  I don’t mean disrespect by the lack of email responses. I really don’t. It is just the one thing in my life that happens to be an option and not mandatory so you know-

Thanks for being patient. I am not afraid to admit that I am in way over my head with all of my responsibilities in life and I’m paying for it. I will figure it all out and I will continue to give you 3 clips a week- or sometimes more.

So anyway, customs….sessions…..I want to do them, I just can’t do them on your I want it now terms most of the time. I am sorry for that. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t inquire- please don’t give up on me….

Happy  weekend.

JJ

I was in Germany and Austria for Venus and Boundcon and I didn’t check email for ten days, no wifi in the hotel room and reallllllly long days living different hours, and being tied up way more often than usual so now I am desperately behind. I had the clips programmed in, however this week upon returning I got behind.  My mind and body really needed a couple of down days after that trip to regroup.

It was incredible and after some schmoozing over there I have some good news! Ha! I LOVE writing that.

I’ll fill you in on that and some photos and info from the events soon.

So now here we are getting back to normal. Feel free to resend your emails if you want them at the front of the line. I’ll tackle them tomorrow. I am still halfway on Euro-time so hopefully this will be a step in the right direction to resetting my internal clock!!

Anyway I am alive and not ignoring anyone intentionally and IF we have a scheduled session or shoot next week I am still in if you are still in (just in case you’ve emailed).

Thank you, thank you, thank you for understanding that I am very human and not some computer robot.

Sincerely, JJ

Oh I did just post a clip of Rachel hogtied, I’ll have more clips for you tomorrow- well, later today technically! I’ll make one of them an update from the trip.

Hi everyone,

I told my fella (Tony) that I would do his webcam Monday night the 28th.

I’ll (JJ Plush) be on there around 11:15pm eastern standard time so if you’d like to say hello, ask me questions live, have me do things (within reason, lol) check in over there at gotcuffs.com. There will be details posted there. We aren’t limited to handcuffs…

Also this Tuesday I’m shooting Sarah Brooke who is a 27 year old from Florida with a lovely face and body.  I don’t shoot many 20 somethings these days so if anyone wants a custom with this lovely girl please email me at jj at borntobebound.com.

Give me the scene idea, outfit idea, tie idea etc and I’ll get back to you with a price. The clip would be edited for you by Friday night. Her elbows touch and she does nudes.

Journal Update:

Hi everyone! I just booked my tickets for the Venus Fair in Berlin next month and for Boundcon Austria sooo if you plan to be at either event please say hello, or even schedule a session- it would be in the hotel room and without all of my things- however a session is possible. Which brings me to November, wow. I will be in Detroit and I will be doing A LOT of sessions. It will be cool enough in here and I don’t have a bunch of traveling models coming through, so if you’ve been considering having me tie you up send a message with as much info as you can.

Also I’ll be shooting with the Ms Caroline Pierce the 23rd and 24th of this month!! PLEASE get your custom video requests in asap for her.

I’ll keep it short…that is it for now-

JJ  jj at borntobebound dot com

Oh and if you don’t like memberships but peek in here anyway check out onebondageplace.com, created by my Tony and cheaper than clips4sale PLUS you can save your clips!!

Journal Update:

It has been a whirlwind of a couple of weeks! Since 2008 I’ve had a big gap between my two front teeth. My bond fell out, the bond that had been in my mouth since high school. I was broke and chose not to fill the gap in. By the time I was making a comfortable enough living to deal with my teeth I had met Tony. Tony loves that actress that plays Sookie Stackhouse on that Vampire show so he urged me to keep the gap. His dogs name is Sookie. Anyway since we’ve been together about 5 years now and he could care less what my teeth look like, so no more gap, plus I fixed two crowns. I figure if I have to spend a lot of money on my teeth I want them to LOOK better. lol

Then we actually put new floor in my spare bedroom. The carpet had been pulled ages ago but we had been too busy to put in new floor (do it yourself-ers).  I wanted to match the floor in my room and the hallway but upon looking up the info I found out the stuff is off the market for having 13X the amount of legal formaldehyde in it!! I guess there was a 60 minutes episode on it but I live in a box and hadn’t heard anything about it.  So not only could I not do the spare room with it I have to replace the stuff in my room and hallway before selling or renting the property! I’m irritable. We didn’t spend all that money on the floor and then a day and half installing it on our own just to find out it is toxic. They have sent us a test kit to see if we are STILL breathing in toxins. I doubt it…it has been 3 years but we will see. We have sooooo many remodel jobs at the bank (studio) the last thing I imagined was having to REDO things in my home! However we did get the new floor in the spare room last week which is very similar to the toxic floor but non-toxic and we painted the big 3rd floor room because it had NEVER been painted. The studio is too hot for remodeling jobs so it was time to work on home. I’ll deal with the poison floor later :/. I’m not sue happy, I’ve never been involved in a lawsuit but I did join in on a class action lawsuit that is being put together in regards to this poison flooring issue. I’d REALLY like to be reimbursed for the material. I don’t think that is asking too much and I REALLY hope it isn’t something that will  make me sick down the line. We will see what happens. Had I not needed to purchase new floor I would have never known about the problem, of course the company never contacted me- but when I contacted them they immediately pulled up my information and sent me the test kit which is being handled by a third party.

Sooo right before all of that I took out my blond weave. It was time.  My short dark hair should have been safe underneath but something happened- perhaps the heat of summer and I lost a shit ton of my natural hair. It is horrible and it is noticeable and it is terrifying soooo. I won’t be able to do weaves anymore and for the time being I’m stuck with very dark hair and wearing clip in extensions. My natural hair has been short and dark for a long time but not really thin.  It was pretty devastating- however I understand things can go very wrong when you mess with your head and this time I didn’t luck out. Oh how I wish I could chop it off into a pixie and start from scratch but then I can’t wear clip ins and somehow I think most of you would not appreciate me with a reallllllly butch haircut. I know changing the color and style annoys enough of you.

I also just had a friend come for 5 days from London and I hadn’t intended on it but we took time off to show him around- Henry Ford Museum, Greenfield Village, Detroit by boat, cruising in an old car, hooking him up with models to shoot etc. It felt really great to take some time off and be a tourist in my own town.  Then we stumbled across and amazing deal on a home with lots of water front property we could keep our boat at and we tried to buy it. We thought we had it!!! We basically celebrated but someone came up with full asking price cash and we didn’t even get a chance to counter but we wouldn’t have had that anyway. We found out we didn’t get it yesterday so the pain is fresh!!

Tomorrow we are going to West Virginia for a family wedding for the weekend and Sunday I get to see Dixie Comet in Pittsburgh! I haven’t seen her since my wedding so it will be great to catch up and nope she does not want to shoot (sadly).

We will be back here Monday night and then I’ll be shooting with Monica Jade who will be staying with me a few days, Rachel who I’ll be shooting the 3rd, and Adara will be back at some time next week. If you’d like a custom with any of them please title your email CUSTOM: jj@borntobebound.com

Back to what you guys really care about- you will get at least 2 of your 3 weekly updates before I go to bed tonight. That is a promise.

Once again I’m sorry to those of you that have sent emails…I’ll be getting to them tomorrow and with my new email server I don’t have thousands of spam messages to sift through and that is sooooo niiiiiiice! See I’m not all complaints!!

Oh and to those of you that have seen my getting into shape kind of take a turn toward the other way months back I am starting again with a trainer mid month. I got distracted by all of the issues in life but I FELT better working out very regularly so I owe it to myself. My clothes still zip they just don’t look as nice, lol. I have to get back on track now before I end back up at 216 lbs, that was a dark time.

Journal update:

Hello everyone. I am sorry I missed giving you all a weekend update. I was too busy shooting to sit at the computer. I am caught up now, last weeks final update and this weeks first update have been posted. Only 13 of you wrote me telling me that the last clips wasn’t up. I guess the rest of you trusted that I would get to it eventually since I’ve been doing this for a while now…

I’ve been posting customs HEAVILY. I thought it might be a problem however last week was the best rebill AND new membership joins since the beginning of the year!!! I guess that means I should keep doing affordable customs that fit the site theme. Welcome newbies to the site. I hope you like what you are downloading and thanks to the regulars as well 🙂

On another note, I know many of you frequent clips4sale even if you aren’t regular buyers there. I just wanted to remind you that sometimes I do shared clips with other bondage models or producers and eventually those clips will be posted here that you might run into there. Someone is just allowed to post the clip first- so you can expect to see a clip of Elane’s tits tied by Sass and I, Carissa & I making out on the boat while she is tied up, Me in ballet slippers tied by Dixie, Steve Villa and I tying up Maria and Bella in my attic, Steve Villa and I tying Karin Sin and that is all I can think of right this minute….

I am REALLY worn out after all of the visitors in my home the last month and I desperately need to catch up on real work. This week will be a slow shoot week but busy with everything else week. I need to do loads and loads of work for my other business.  Rachel returns Thursday- I know a few of you wanted customs so please send them to- jj@borntobebound.com. Plus I am shooting a new girl that was excited to shoot with me until she had a horrible experience with another guy in the industry who is quickly giving himself a horrible, horrible name. In fact I know a dozen women that will NOT work with him again because he refused to untie them when they asked. I know some of us are tight and mean however if someone panics or needs out, they get out…I’m disgusted at this guy. He is turning A LOT of models in the midwest off of bondage with his behavior because they assume we are all like that or they get some kind of post traumatic stress thing happening and they can’t imagine being tied up again. It is a real shame.

We have been shooting more and more with the new camera and it is a bitch to get the settings right for the lighting. We are working on it of course. When it is right it does look good, but it is a complicated thing to learn and my post fixing coloring skills are just terrible. I apologize for any frustration you have while watching the clips. We will only get better with it.

On another note, the blonde weave came out today but there are LOTS more videos to post with it today. Like all my hair changes I loved it at first but it started to look not so great, to say the least. I’ll be back to dark brown hair for a bit. It’s too hot to have things sewn to my head right now, it is just not worth it. lol.

Tonight I’ll upload a bonus set of various photos, and later this week I’ll upload a bonus clip of Tabitha. It was a custom and I didn’t really like the way it went. We just had no chemistry so I’m going to post it here as a bonus and not a regular clip. The next regular clip update will be of Sonya, Freshie Juice very well dressed in a TIGHT hogtie.

That is it for now,

JJ

Oh and just a reminder that I’ll be at Boundcon in Vienna Austria in October. I here the facility is spectacular and the organizer is expecting an enormous turnout. I will also be at the Venus Fair in Berlin this October, which I actually only attended once years ago. I will have rope and gags in tow and I will be doing some domme sessions with interested parties so if you’d like that to be you please send me a message jj@borntobebound.com.

Since my last post about all of the traveling models Monica has canceled her trip this month and plans to come later this summer. Rachel plans to return at the beginning of August instead of the 23rd and Carissa Montgomery will be coming to shoot the 22nd and 23rd!

I know I haven’t gotten back to those of you that have written about customs and sessions. I’ve had some major personal hang ups and there have been some things that have taken the back burner and emails are the biggest sufferer.

I WILL be responding to those messages about customs Wednesday night. I’m 98% sure. I know some of you wrote what seems like forever ago.

This weeks updates will be Freshie in a kind of pantyhose encasement with tape and a DID clip of Terra Mizu and I haven’t decided on the last clip of the week yet and at some point when I can breathe there will be bonuses.

I am in my home and not at my studio which is where I spend most of my time and  I keep losing the connection before the clip uploads so you might not get them until I’m done shooting Wednesday.

Thanks everyone…

JJ

I know I owe so many of you emails about customs and things and I WILL get to them this weekend. I’m just having a hard time right now. Seriously I’m busy all of the time yet I am not getting the things done that need to be done. I’m really not sure what I am doing wrong….On a brighter note my sleeping habits are improving a wee bit, one step at a time. That might be one of the things hurting me right now. I naturally want to work until 9 or 10am and forcing myself into bed by 5am to get up at a reasonable hour cuts into those hours that I get a lot done. I wake up foggy and not able to concentrate. I’m hoping with time that will change because I was losing my mind sleeping days away and being up all night. I know it is so hard for normal people to understand a serious circadian rhythm disorder.

On another note I’ll be at Boundcon, Austria in October and the Venus Fair in Berlin and I do plan on doing some sessions if you are interested.

So I’ve had a week of no visitors around but that is changing real soon. Here is the visiting model list. ALL of these ladies would love custom videos, and as I mentioned last time if they fit the site I will make them really cheap. I’ve never been considered pricey in the custom game anyway.

I do see Adara, Rachel and Sass regularly but I have no idea when the other ladies will return

Here we go:

July:

15 Amanda Fox (Florida) I’ve never shot her!! – very blonde, slender, very good at bondage

16  Elane Hershey (Virginia)

17  Elane Hershey and Amanda Marie (Chicago)

18   Elane Hershey, Jamie Knotts (0hio)  & Sass

22-27  Monica Jade (Virginia) potential visit, not sure

23 Rachel Adams (Ohio)

26-29  Hannah Perez (NY)

28  Tabitha (Vegas)

beginning of August Adara (Ohio)

September sometime Caroline Pierce (Vegas)

Journal Update

First I am very, very blonde again which was initially really shocking despite having been platinum blonde for 15 years. I hope some of you like it, if not- no worries I’ll change it soon I’m sure. lol. My family suuuuure loves me blonde. They feel like they know me this way.

 I am sorry there wasn’t a new update for the weekend but I’m caught up now. I’ll give you all a bonus clip update and a photo bonus later this week as an apology. It has been non-stop people at my house and non-stop shooting and assisting with shoots and then just regular waste of precious time problems that keep arising. I haven’t even checked my email in days again. I hate being this busy with shoots but I have to take the people as they come. Unfortunately they just allllll want to come in June and it just screws me up. On top of it my studio and my home are so messy from non-stop clips. I know I sound like a broken record.

Anyway when I wake up later today I am shooting Ariyana with Steve Villa and then Karin Sin! Maybe Steve and I can get some solo clips in too. That will make for a long day but very rewarding.

The following day I’ll be shooting Rachel again for borntobebound and then another t-girl for the sometimesagurlsite which is coming soon. I believe there area few clips up at www.clips4sale.com/4458  if you are interested in that and once we launch the website later this year I’ll offer a discount rate for people that subscribe to both as a thank you. Over the years many of you have requested my men in bondage and tigirls in bondage clips to be posted here as well but I know MANY men that only like to see natural born women in bondage so I’ve always felt like it was important to separate the content. I’ll also be launching shapewearforme.com featuring the shapewear I sell but modeled by tgirls later this year. I AM EXCITED about it and I’ve gotten a lot of positive feedback from people that know about it.

I am going to check my emails now. I know I owe a few of your some info on customs.

Hold tight for the bonus content later this week. The next clip update I post will be Terra Mizu in a tight chicken wing hogtie.

If you have some ideas for gags, things I don’t usually do please feel free to send ideas with photos even- jj@borntobebound.com

Oh and I’ve been unhappy with the quality of my video camera the last few months. It just isn’t crisp anymore despite what kind of light I run it in and despite that darn thing being pricey to begin with. I just think it has too many hours on it. Things sure aren’t made to last like they were at one time, but anyway we ordered a camera package that new is over $7000 and we got it for $3500 from a good friend so that is pretty awesome!!!! It is only 6 months old and actually has not depreciated much at all.  Although it is a great deal $3500 is still pretty steep. I hadn’t budgeted the camera for now. I was going to wait until winter however the deal was too good to pass up!!!! Sooooo you know go ahead and get a membership this month instead of just peaking in or buy a clip at onebondageplace or www.clips4sale.com/8358. The one month membership will put about $12 in my pocket.

It takes A LOT of you to make this website work and I really appreciate your support!!!

Fondly, JJ